SEX See also: Lust | 性 |
God thought of sex before man did, and when man
leaves God out of his sexual thinking he is in trouble. 在人進行性行為之前,上帝早已想到了,而當人將上帝置於他的性思想之外,他就有麻煩了。 |
What would you not give to
have the word 'sex' set free from every trace of fear, guilt, shame and impurity? 當你提到「性」這個字的時候,如何才能不連想到恐懼、罪感、羞恥及不潔淨呢? |
All healthy men, ancient and modern, Eastern and
Western, know that there is a certain fury in sex that we cannot afford to inflame, and
that a certain mystery and awe must ever surround it if we are to remain sane. G. K. Chesterton 所有健康人,不分古今中外,都知道在性裡面的某些激情是我們不能冒險煽起的,如果我們想保持理智的話,仍需要待以某些神秘與敬畏。 |
Sex without love is a dead
end. Fred Catherwood 沒有愛的性是死路一條。 |
What happens when sex is liberated is not equality
but a vast intensification of sexual competition from which there is no sure haven except
impotence and defeat. George Gilder 當性被解放時,不是帶來兩性平等而是更劇烈的兩性競爭,在其中沒有避風港,只有軟弱與幻滅。 |
The battle of life will
probably not rise above the sex battle. E. Stanley Jones 人生的戰鬥大概不會高過性的戰爭。 |
Sexual desire is not love. Desire is quite
compatible with personal hatred, or contempt, or indifference. John MacMurray 性慾不是愛。慾望幾乎相同於個人的恨惡、輕視或冷漠。 |
God never intended that man
could find the true meaning of his sexuality in any other relationship than that of the
total self-giving involved in marriage. Al Martin 上帝從未打算過除了全然付出的投入婚姻外,人能在其他任何關係中找到性的真正意義。 |
Whereas the charge levelled at the Victorians was
'love without sex', today it is 'sex without love'. David Watson 在維多利亞時代,人們認為「要愛不需要性」,今天則是「要性不要愛」。 |
Sex involves the entire life
and personality, and to misuse sex is to abuse oneself as well as one's partner. Harold P. Wells 性包含整個生活與人格,濫用性等於糟蹋自己、糟蹋別人。 |
If sex is such a natural phenomenon, how come there
are so many books on how to? Bette Midler 如果性真是那麼自然的現象,那怎麼來的這麼多書告訴人家怎麼做呢? |
Sometimes in my dreams there
are women...When such dreams happen, immediately I remember, 'I am a monk.'...It is very
important to analyze 'What is the real benefit of sexual desire?' The appearance of a
beautiful face or a beautiful body - as many scriptures describe - no matter how
beautiful, they essentially decompose into a skeleton. When we penetrate to its human
flesh and bones, there is no beauty, is there? A couple in a sexual experience is happy
for that moment. Then very soon trouble begins. The Dalai Lama 有時候我會夢到女人...當那樣的夢出現時,我立刻想起「我是個和尚。」...分析「性慾的真正益處是甚麼?」實在非常重要。漂亮臉孔或者漂亮身材的外貌 - 就像許多經文描述的 - 無論多麼漂亮,終將腐爛只剩骨頭。當我們深入探究人們的軀體與骨骼,那裡根本沒有美麗,有嗎?一對男女在性經驗中獲得短暫快樂,很快的麻煩就開始了。 |
Everyone lies about sex, more or less, to themselves
if not to others, exaggerating its importance or minimizing its pull. 每個人對「性」都會撒點謊,如果不是對別人,就是對他們自己;不是誇大它的重要性,就是貶低它的吸引力。 |